Violin Lessons A Key To Achieve Social Skills For Children (part 3 Of 3)

This article series showed that playing the violin promotes better physical well-being. It powers up children’s bodies during the most crucial growing years. Learning to play the violin increases skills and intelligence. Similarly, violin lessons also provide the building blocks for enriching one’s I.Q. or intelligence quotient. As a result, a sound mind and a healthy body become the ideal states to nurture one’s emotional wellness. They bolster-up one’s social skills.

The song “Music” by iconic pop superstar Madonna was a massive hit worldwide. True to its lyrics, the song literally made “people come together”. It goes to show that music stimulates social interaction. In the same manner, a musician playing before an audience creates a social connection. If you want to introduce your child to an activity that could boost his/her E.Q. or emotional quotient, try introducing him to a music instrument such as the violin.

How Playing The Violin Improves Social Skills:

1. Self-Discipline and Responsibility

Self-discipline is an important element in acquiring “people skills”. It is having the discernment on how to conduct oneself while interacting with other people. In playing the violin, your child benefits not only from the discipline of regular practice sessions. It also teaches your child how to value and be responsible for caring for his instrument. The routine of tuning, cleaning, or simply putting it back on the case after playing, are simple chores. These are essential in moulding his sense of discipline and responsibility.

2. Confidence and Excellence

The attack of the nerves could easily ruin your performance and deplete your confidence. Violin lessons are a great way for taking young children out of their shell. It builds their confidence to take their skills up a notch. They could carry on this attitude in other areas of their lives, such as school work or career pursuits.

3. Collaboration and Community

The one-on-one session with a violin teacher is an exercise for your child to develop a sense of cooperation. Furthermore, it will give him the opportunity to jam with other violinists or musicians. Being part of a small or even an impromptu orchestra is rewarding aural experience. At the same time, it teaches a valuable lesson in teamwork and collaboration.

4. Patience and Persistence

Kids have short attention spans and are naturally impatient. The digital environment makes them more inclined to adapt the I-want-it-now!’ attitude. Patience is a virtue, especially in dealing with people from different walks of life. The discipline they acquire from violin classes cultivates patience. It will make them understand that it takes time and effort to achieve progress.

Is your child a bit shy or timid? Does he or she clam up in a normal conversation? Does your child have stage fright? These may or may not be a cause for alarm. But just the same, you should help your child overcome them as these could hinder their social development. Enrolling them in violin lessons could work wonders. They not only learn music skills. They gain “life skills” as well.